Gingerbread Woman

Oh and

Lots of you have asked about whether I've heard from Fred's dad. The answer's no. The way I see it he didn't have a choice in whether I had the baby so he's entitled to a choice about whether to get involved. I actually feel lots of empathy for him, I suspect, if he choses to stay away, that's probably a tough call long term. He struck me as a decent guy embroiled in a battle with his self esteem and I'm not sure he'll be too kind with himself if he stays silent.

I may drop him a line when Fred's here just to say he's here, here's a picture, I'll support your decision if you stay away and won't bother you again, but this is where we are if you change your mind. I may just leave him be. I'm struggling with what's the right thing to do on that one so any private advice / wisdom welcome.

posted by The Gypsy @ 1:17 am